{"id":1763,"date":"2016-12-29T06:31:32","date_gmt":"2016-12-29T06:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/blog\/?p=1763"},"modified":"2021-08-03T01:25:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-03T09:25:35","slug":"how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adiamor.com\/blog\/education\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring","title":{"rendered":"How to Choose the Right Engagement Ring for Your Future Mrs."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs.jpg\" data-rel=\"penci-gallery-image-content\" ><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-1786 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Learning how to choose the right engagement ring\" width=\"640\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/adiamor.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/how-to-choose-right-engagement-ring-future-mrs.jpg 1126w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You remember the first time you saw her.<\/p>\n<p>It may have been love at first sight. It may not have been, but you felt that strange &#8220;something&#8221; when she walked into the room. Or maybe you were &#8220;just friends&#8221;&#8230; until you weren&#8217;t anymore.<\/p>\n<p>Whatever the case, your heart is telling you that she&#8217;s the one you want to spend the rest of your life with and what&#8217;s more, your head is in agreement. If either had hands, they&#8217;d be high-fiving. So&nbsp;the next step is the&nbsp;ring.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s likely you&#8217;ve&nbsp;been informed already that the ring matters. It REALLY matters.<\/p>\n<p>It can&#8217;t be just any ring. You need to pick&nbsp;the perfect ring for her. Whether you pick something <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Rings-and-Bands\">classic<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Design-Your-Own\/Ring\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">create your own new design <\/a>&#8211; it has to be perfect.<\/p>\n<p>And we know there is a rather (ahem)&#8230; sizable <a href=\"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Education\"><strong>selection of engagement rings<\/strong><\/a> for women to be found. But fear not! Your perfect engagement ring is out there. And this guide we&#8217;ve put together will teach you exactly how to choose the right engagement ring for your future Mrs.<\/p>\n<h2>Learning how to choose the right engagement ring&nbsp;for women is not as hard as you think.<\/h2>\n<p>While it&#8217;s not unusual for&nbsp;couples to ring shop together, there&#8217;s something beautiful and romantic about going it alone. That whole rugged venturing into unchartered territory thing. Kudos to you!<\/p>\n<p>So be not overwhelmed, explorer, by the vast sea of engagement rings for women. This list of considerations will help you navigate any stormy seas.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t worry. You&#8217;ve got this.<\/p>\n<h2>1. Engage in Engagement Ring Espionage<\/h2>\n<p>So you&#8217;re going the&nbsp;traditionalist route and looking to surprise her with a ring she&#8217;ll love. The first rule, pay attention.<\/p>\n<p>Notice her jewelry preferences. For example, does she prefer silver\/platinum to yellow gold? Is she more inclined toward vintage, classic or modern jewelry? How does she feel about diamonds?<\/p>\n<p>Give yourself a few weeks to watch and take mental notes. (Yes, mental. Written notes could be intercepted.)<\/p>\n<p>Also, consider getting some backup &#8211; in the form of her best friends and\/or her siblings. They can be hugely helpful further down the road.<\/p>\n<p>And by all means, swear them to secrecy.<\/p>\n<h2>2. Where Do You Go Now?<\/h2>\n<p>Once you&#8217;ve gathered the important information from your espionage activities, you can start your jeweler search.<\/p>\n<p>Ask married friends and family members who currently sport engagement rings where they went. If that doesn&#8217;t generate any leads, check for stores&nbsp;with an industry organization affiliation. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Education\/Jeweler-Guide\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jewelers&nbsp;<\/a>accredited by the Jewelers of America or members of the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) are good places to start.<\/p>\n<p>Always find out what a store&#8217;s return policy is too. You want to be able to exchange the stone if it&#8217;s not exactly the one she wants. (Don&#8217;t start sweating. This is a just in case.)<\/p>\n<p>And finally,&nbsp;if you&#8217;re working from a humanitarian bent, you may consider shopping at jewelers&nbsp;who sell only <a href=\"http:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Conflict-Free-Policy\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">conflict-free diamonds<\/a>&nbsp;and who adhere to a strict, zero-tolerance policy toward conflict diamonds. Be sure they deal&nbsp;with only reputable diamond suppliers who participate in the System of Warranties and follow the guidelines of the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kimberleyprocess.com\/en\/about\" rel=\"nofollow\">Kimberley Process<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h2>3.&nbsp;The Engagement Ring Erector Set<\/h2>\n<p>So now you&#8217;re well-informed on your&nbsp;soon-to-be fianc\u00e9&#8217;s preferences, gathered your band of secret-keeping sidekicks and picked out the jeweler.<\/p>\n<p>So, here&#8217;s the thing. It&#8217;s highly unlikely that&nbsp;you&#8217;ll happen upon the&nbsp;ring as you walk into the store. Perfect. Because now you get to do the cool part. You get to build the perfect engagement ring.<\/p>\n<p>You will need to consider a few things in the construction:<\/p>\n<h3>&#8220;The 4 Cs&#8221;<\/h3>\n<p>If the stone is going to be a diamond, you need to know these <a href=\"http:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Education\/Diamond-Education\">four characteristics&nbsp;<\/a>of the stone&nbsp;in regards to quality. They are Color, Clarity, Cut, and Carat Weight.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>The more colorless a diamond is, the closer to perfection it is. When purchasing a diamond, less color means a higher quality stone.<\/li>\n<li>Diamonds with more clarity and the fewest amount of flaws such as inclusions and blemishes are considered more valuable.<\/li>\n<li>A diamond\u2019s cut grade is proportionate&nbsp;with how well it interacts with light. The higher the grade, the more dazzling the diamond.<\/li>\n<li>Diamonds are measured in carats, so the carat weight of your diamond has a huge&nbsp;effect on its price. (The phrase karat with a &#8220;k&#8221; refers to the purity of gold.)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>A qualified jeweler will help you better determine these four characteristics.<\/p>\n<h3>Shape<\/h3>\n<p>While cut refers to the angles of the facets of the stone, shape refers to the actual geometry of the stone. Is it square, oval, round, etc.?<\/p>\n<h3>Setting<\/h3>\n<p>The metal framework which will hold the stone you&#8217;ve chosen&nbsp;can set the tone for her&nbsp;special engagement&nbsp;ring.<\/p>\n<h3>Metal<\/h3>\n<p>When it comes to the band, there are a&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.adiamor.com\/Engagement-Rings-Metal\">variety of metals to choose from<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Platinum is super&nbsp;durable. It&#8217;s also&nbsp;hypoallergenic so it&#8217;s a good choice if she has&nbsp;sensitive skin.<\/p>\n<p>Gold is softer and more diverse. It comes in a variety colors, including white, yellow, rose, and even green.<\/p>\n<p>Palladium sounds like a roller skating rink&nbsp;but is actually a metal in a hue that is similar to platinum, but grayer.<\/p>\n<h3>Inscription<\/h3>\n<p>This is optional, of course. But having an inscription ensures that her ring will be one-of-a-kind and right from your heart.<\/p>\n<h2>4.&nbsp;You Can Budge on Your Budget<\/h2>\n<p>The old advice was that you should spend two months salary on a woman&#8217;s&nbsp;engagement ring.<\/p>\n<p>The new advice says to simply buy&nbsp;the best ring you can without going into major debt or selling an organ.<\/p>\n<p>If your wife-to-be&nbsp;leans toward the extravagant while your budget leans in the other direction, that&#8217;s workable. Maybe get a ring&nbsp;with a slightly larger surface area. It won&#8217;t be as impactful, but a one-carat ring will look much larger if the stone isn&#8217;t set as deep.<\/p>\n<p>If you&#8217;d rather keep the look of the stone intact, here&#8217;s a helpful tip. Buying just shy of the next carat &#8211; for example, opting for a 1.8 instead of a 2 &#8211; can garner a savings of nearly 20%.<\/p>\n<p>As for clarity, buying on the shyer side can still give you plenty of sparkle. Many defects are not even visible to the naked eye.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Get It in Writing<\/h2>\n<p>This one is no joke.<\/p>\n<p>Diamonds that are one carat or larger should be accompanied by a diamond grading report issued by an independent gemological association such as the GIA or the American Gem Society.<\/p>\n<p>You might also get a &#8220;fingerprint&#8221; of your ring on the bill of sale, which would include the stone&#8217;s 4 Cs, shape, dimensions, and any cosmetic enhancements.<\/p>\n<p>If there is anything else that affects its value, i.e. if it was made by a famous designer, is an antique or period piece, or is handmade or custom-designed, this should also be noted.<\/p>\n<p>Get it on paper, man.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Now Sit Back (or Pace the Floor) for Several Weeks<\/h2>\n<p>Now that you know how to choose the right engagement ring, keep in mind that once you order the ring, there will be a waiting time. It could potentially take up to six weeks to arrive, maybe longer if you&#8217;re having it custom designed. But it will be&nbsp;worth the wait.<\/p>\n<p>Just know that if her&nbsp;best friends and\/or siblings are starting to champ at the bit to spill the beans,&nbsp;you may need to resort to bribery. Chances are, they&#8217;re almost as excited for her to get it as you are.<\/p>\n<p>Congratulations and good luck!&nbsp;She&#8217;s going to love it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You remember the first time you saw her. It may have been love at first sight. 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